There was one weekend left in Bhutan, the weekend I had been looking forward to since we arrived.
Melanie and Shankar are two US trained emergency physicians who along with their spirited, beautiful kids Nora and Luka have moved semi-permanently to Bhutan. They had come previously for 4 months, felt like it was a good fit and so came back on a two year plan.
They were our grounding force for our time in Bhutan, also our ATM machine, running partners, local guides, translator, and for the last weekend, event planner. Melanie had organized a weekend for a group of us with an easy that comes only by both knowing the area well and knowing kids.
As you can see from the pictures, there was no shortage of fun. We headed to the famous town of Punakha, an almost tropic town north of Thiumphu but a noticeable 4000 feet lower. We visited the temple of the divine madman who promoted the display of the phalluses has been taken to a whole new level with the boom in tourism. We lounged in beautiful rooms, ate delicious food, talked for hours. We visited the local Dzong, rafted the female river, watched migrating ducks from Tibet and joyful young monks strip off their robes to go swimming.
But what this weekend more for me was a celebration of the people here. Melanie and Shankar are the type of doctor am always striving to be - kind, confident, humble and incredibly skilled. Balancing life, politics, medicine, family and so much more, it is the hours spent reflecting on how you really teach, what it means to make a health care system work, or the fine balance in protecting your children while pushing them to grow to be independent, resilient adults that I will take away from my time in Bhutan. They were more than freinds, their kindness and support gave me the space to let go and jump subtly and profoundly shifting the way I see the world.
We came on this year to see new places but again found it was the friendships that filled our hearts.
Isabelle made brownies in preparation for our adventure.